cinderella's story

honeymoon - Phuket

holy matrimony

finally

i am now Mrs. Lusiyanti :)

everything going well..Thx God!

g ke hotel kemaren..
fixed makanan n did the payment
g dah order food for the party
300 porsi buffet
100 porsi bebek peking
100 porsi salmon
250 porsi live cook tepanyaki
250 porsi dimsum
150 es puter

dekor juga dah clear
gown dah pilih
kue dah fixed
tinggal konfirmasi soal drum dari Grace n tentuin sound system
fitting, diet, n perawatan..

Thanks God

100 days to go to my day ^^

100 is good number right?
perfect!
g mengeluh banyak hal belakangan ini
i should have not :p
i should feel grateful rite?
at least : i am gonna get merried, i ll have a friend for the rest of my life,
i am gonna be a quenn for a day..
see, i am so blessed :p

100 days to go..
let's make it perfect!^^

prewed photos part 2

Love is..

Love is patient, love is kind, it doesn't envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.
It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easyly eagered, it keeps no records of wrong.
Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.
It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.

1 Cor 13, 4-7

pre wedding photos

love this video much..

i am so jealous with this couple
their clip is so gorgeuos..
http://vimeo.com/6047917
i also have my prewedding photo shoot @ singapore
but i can surejly say
their is much-much better than mine..

singapore pre-wed

went to singapore @ July 20th, 2009
get my photo shoot @ July 21 & 22
location :
day 1 : botanical garden, palawan beach @ sentosa, singapore flyer,esplanade
day 2 : chinese garden, japanese garden, national museum
photos upload soon :)

preparation

i will have my pre wedding photoshot on July 20,21 @ Singapore..
since i already pay a lot, so i want & hope the photos will be great
i shopped so much lately
i spend so much money buying cute t-shirt, dresses & accecories
i also did my hair-do ( i permed it again :D )
bought cosmetics, made a night gown & blablabla...

oh, it cost me a lot, hope it will be worth it ^^
pray for me :p

after the honeymoon

I finished reading this book last night...

G jd berpikir :
Menikah itu suatu keputusan berat
terlepas dari kita bisa bersama-sama orang yg kita cintai
tp kita tetap 2 pribadi yg beda
punya pikiran, keinginan, & kepribadian masing2
it's gonna be tough to dealing with each other

G sendiri ga suka diatur
G suka memutuskan apapun sendiri
after i got married i should compromize with him every single day
i should tell him anything
oh my...

It's a little bit scary for me
can both of us understand each other?
can we still love each other after we get to know each other more & more?

I thank God that I dont have to get marry in young age
I have no idea how 18 year old girl wanna get marry with her bf
Marriage is not only about sex rite?

Oh God, help me through this...

Kursus Persiapan Pernikahan

finally...
sertifikat udah di tangan gue ma Yan
after taking Pre Merriage Preparation Course tanggal 14,15,21,22 Feb ini secara full, kemaren kita dah dapet sertifikat & 1 step buat persiapan sudah dilalui...

The Course was good, even sometimes penyajinya kurang menarik dalam penyampaian materinya..
but somehow, pengetahuan g ttg kehidupan perkawinan secara Katolik lebih terbuka..

The main idea of marriage is LOVE, ini ditekankan bgt...
than pusat dari segalanya adalah our beloved JC

Materi yg paling menarik n buka wawasan g adalah mengenai KB alamiah
did you know before that :
1. Kita bisa mengetahui masa subur kita dari mengukur suhu tubuh setiap pagi setelah bangun tidur sebelum melakukan aktifitas apapun dengan naruh termometer di bawah lidah selama 5mnt.
Suhu yg kita ukur kita catat dari awal masa haid sampai haid berikutnya.
Dari grafik yg kita buat, kita bakal tahu kapan masa subur kita.
2. dari masa subur ke mens selalu 14hari
3. masa subur cewek ternyata cuma 4 hari, so kalo mau bkn anak & udah lwt 4 hari masa subur, kita harus tunggu bulan depan
4. pada 3 hari pertama masa subur, sel telur belum dilepaskan dari indungnya
5. ternyata kita bisa ngatur anak cewek / anak cowok lho...
caranya : berhubunganlah pada masa ovulasi
sperma cowok : x & y
x : anak cewek, bentuknya gemuk n lamban, bertahan 3harian
y : anak cowok, bentuknya panjang n gesit, hanya bertahan 1 hari
klo kita berhubungan di 3 hari pertama masa subur, kemungkinan dpt anak cewek lbh tinggi, but...
klo bikin anak pas ovulasi 70% pasti anak cowok lho, krn si y geraknya cepat
5. KB buatan sering berdampak tidak baik untuk badan cewek...
6. Sel telur cewek cuma bertahan 1x24 jam

Hm...baru tahu lho g ttg ini semua, than g bersyukur g dapat pembekalan ilmu2 yg berguna buat kehidupan perkawinan g tadi...

Sayang ga semua cewek dpt pengetahuan ini, klo mereka tahu, ngapain juga mereka harus tersiksa dengan alat KB sepanjang tahun padahal masa subur cewek cuma 4 hari, kalau saja dia tahu ttg KBA...

sweet invitation

dont you think that this invitation is simple but nice?

finally...

after searching2..
cocokin budget
finally tempatnya fixed for my wedding day
we decided to held it @ Aston Atrium
hope everything runs smoothly.. :)

test food

tommorow at 10 am, we, me, cha, yan & grandma
will have food test @ aston...
hopefully the test will be ok (i dont dream to have great taste)
people always say : ada harga ada barang...
even for me Aston is quite expensive (Rp. 150.000,- ++/pax)
but compare to other hotel, the price is maamaa yasui;)
wish me luck everybody^^

yeayyyy!

dapet tiket murah lagi bo!
Air Asia mang ga ada duanya,hehe
sempet bete sih krn leumot bgt hr ini
mungkin sejuta umat cari tiket Rp. 0,- kali ya
finally confirmed juga tiket Jkt-KL-Jkt g ma Yan
so, if we can't ford a lot of money for honey moon,
or we can't get honeymoon tour from sin,
we'll just spend time in Singapore n malaysia for a week
Rp. 490.000,- only for two of us bo!
cheap? yeah...

living with stranger...

semalem g baru kepikiran 1 hal :
OMG..I am gonna live with 'a stranger' whole my life starting next year
'a stranger' karena g baru kenal dia 2 tahunan,
we never lived at the same roof so i dont know exactly how is he
we have different interest, different background & blablabla...
beda sama klo g tinggal sama sibling g
i have spend most of my life with them
we have same parents, same blood, have shared a whole life

last night, i stared at my future husband's pic&
told my self
'this person is one who will standing beside you a whole life...
in happy & sad time...'
it was a little bit scary
but lets dont worry bout future
pray,pray.pray...

good luck!

365 days to go

365 days from today
i am gonna be someone's wife...
exiting? scary?
the answer is both..

i am gonna very busy & dizy
but i'll try to enjoy it
since this moment is one in a lifetime rite?