when you decided to get married with someone...

why people want to get married?
1. we are human, we can't live alone
2. we need to share, in good times and bad times, family is important but they can't stay rest of our life with us, friends are important but they have their own life
3. we need to have children, Christian said the propose of married is to have children.
4. etc...

in younger age, we dreamt to get married with handsome, rich and gentlement prince of charming, but the fact in real world: there is no such a fairy tale
when you are getting older, you maybe still wanna get married with good looking guy, or married someone rich, or good person is just fine for you
It is to difficult to find Mr. Perfect who has all 'good criteria' in one package..

what i want to share here is about one annoying man (my relative) who bother me so much.
he is old, forthy something but really doesn't behave at all
he is crazy of getting married
hurrying her ma to make a party for him
he even dont have a proper job
but got new house & car from his nice brother (how lucky he is)
after all his attitude is so..... unbearable
he is like a child, mommy should accompany him to find a shirt & suitcase
mommy should pay all his party cost
mommy arrange prewedding photoshot for him
if 'mommy' is not asking me to accompany him too, it will be fine for me
last saturday, i have to go to shopping mall with them until 9 pm
that almost killed me
i was exhausted, i had to work in the morning, then have to spare time for this childish person, sungguh tak rela
my stomach was so hurt me that night that i worried so much about my baby

today he is taking his prewedding photoshoot
he went to bridal with my lil sis, can you imagine, forthy something man should have accompany to have photo shoot...
why don't he ask someone to accompany him while making love?

i feel pitty for her wife to be...
i hope she has tons of patient.

tok, tok, tok...i knocked on the table...
i am pregnant but i have to share
girls, find a responsibility man, don't look at his family's richness,
if he is not willing to work, it's useless...